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Chapter 22Staying in Love
Falling in love is easy; staying in love for the long haul is difficult. Why? When we fall in love, we're caught up in such an idealistic fantasy that we can dismiss our heartthrob's quirks and weaknesses without hesitation. When that fantasy meets reality, it's a different matter.
With half the marriages in the United States ending in divorce, there is work to be done if you and your mate don't want to become a part of those statistics. The work falls into two areas, working on the relationship in the realms we've already covered and working on yourselves so you become, not only easier to live with, but sources of support, admiration, and love. When you become a best friend to yourself through your efforts to change and a best friend to your mate, you'll go the distance. Better than that--your love will grow so deep, you'll marvel at the miracle of it.
Whew, I’ve taken you on a pretty wild ride through the brambles of love! I hope that, even though you had to face some tough issues, you found the ride worthwhile.
Dr. Bob